Experiencing a hate incident can be a deeply distressing event. It is an assault not just on one’s physical well-being, but on one’s identity and sense of security. In these challenging moments, it’s crucial to know what steps to take. This post aims to guide you on what to do when you, or someone you know, encounters such a situation.

1. Ensure Your Immediate Safety

If you find yourself in immediate danger, call the local authorities right away i.e. Dial 911. Prioritize your safety above all else and, if possible, move away from the source of danger. Do not engage in confrontation, as it can escalate the situation.

2. Seek Medical Attention

If you are physically hurt, seek medical attention immediately. Document any injuries with photographs and make sure medical personnel record the nature of your injuries and the circumstances in which they were received. This can be vital evidence if you decide to take legal action later on.

3. Report the Incident

Once you’re safe, report the incident to the San Marino Police Department. You have the right to have an officer take your statement and create a police report. Insist on this. Make sure to request a copy of the report for your records. Be clear and emphasize if you believe you were targeted because of your race, gender, religion, sexual orientation, or any other characteristic protected under hate crime legislation.

4. Document Everything

Document as much as you can about the incident. This includes taking photographs of any physical harm or property damage, writing down what happened in as much detail as possible, and keeping a record of all communications relating to the incident.

If there were witnesses, ask them to write down what they saw and get their contact information. Their statements could be helpful should you pursue legal action or need to provide a detailed account to law enforcement or community support agencies.

5. Seek Support

Reach out to local support groups and resources in your area. This can include local branches of the American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU), Anti-Defamation League (ADL), or community-specific support organizations. For residents of Los Angeles County or San Marino, California, the Los Angeles County Commission on Human Relations and SMABCET (San Marino Anti-Bias Community Engagement Team), and LA vs HATE are valuable resources. These organizations can offer emotional support, legal guidance, and practical assistance.

6. Speak Out (If You Feel Safe to Do So)

When you are ready, consider sharing your story. Speaking out about your experience can be an empowering step in your recovery, and it can help to raise awareness about hate crimes in your community. Your experience could inspire change, help others who are going through similar experiences, and foster a community-wide culture of understanding and acceptance.

Remember, if you have experienced a hate incident, you are not alone. There are resources and people who can help. No one should have to endure hate, discrimination, or bigotry, and every one of us can play a role in creating a more inclusive and accepting society.